The Dream Trip - Chapter 17/Epilogue

The alarm was a rude awakening, but the girls were up and taking turns in the shower quickly so they could get to the airport with plenty of time. Their flight was to depart at 10:30am. They could hardly believe their trip was about to end. The reality of the end of the trip had not hit any of them yet.

After dragging their luggage outside the hotel door and getting everything loaded into the taxi that reality started to hit. Suddenly they were all quiet as they watched out the window the scenery they had seen when they arrived. They got all checked in and stopped at the duty free shops to pick up a few last minute gifts before heading to customs. After customs they were ready to sit down and wait until boarding time.

Each of the girls was lost in their own thoughts of the trip, and the normal constant chatter had turned into self reflection until their cell phones began to ring. They had planned to call the lads, but the lads had beat them to it. So much for self reflection, the chatter was back and each of the girls was retelling the events of the night before, how excited they were about the videos, laughing at things said from the other end, and softly sharing some special comments meant only for each couple. The most quiet were the good-byes. And as quickly as the calls came, they ended.

The call came to board the flight to the US and as the girls too one last look from the plane window, they all knew they had experienced a very special dream trip.

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Epilogue

Things had pretty much returned to normal for the girls after they returned. Pictures were shared and tales were told. The remaining days of summer passed quickly. As the girls settled into their regular routines with work and college the events of the summer became a special memory.

And then one day at the beginning of October a package arrived for Mona. She quickly called the other girls to meet with her as it was from Ireland and she had a feeling that they should all be together. As she opened the package she found the pictures from the photo shoot and the 4 videos that the girls created. There was also a fifth video.

They put the DVD in the player and watched. It was called Celtic Thunder and they all sat with their eyes wide as they saw each of the guys in this amazing musical production. There was also an envelope with four front row tickets to a performance in two weeks at a venue near them including an invitation to meet with the lads after the show.

The lads had been holding out on the girls and now they would all get to see each other again. Front row seats watching their favorite Irish men. Who could ask for more!

The Dream Trip - Chapter 16

Morning came all too quickly with the late night, early morning, celebration with the lads that the girls had all enjoyed. It was time to pack up and head back to Dublin for one last night in Ireland. Suitcases were bursting at the seams and there were still a few more souvenirs to purchase for friends back home. For one last time the girls loaded the car and headed east.

All during their ride they chatted about all the places they had seen, places they had missed and plans to make another trip to Ireland as soon as they could. Even with all that, most of their conversation centered around meeting Ryan, Paul, Damian and Keith. They considered themselves to be very lucky to have met some amazing talented lads all by chance.

Briana brought up Damian's comment about seeing her in the States and the other girls agreed that there must have been some hidden message in what the lads were telling them. There was not enough information for them to figure this out, and they decided to wait for the adventure to come to them as they had when they planned their trip to Ireland.

Accommodations for the night were a splurge at the Fitzwilliam Hotel. It was close to St. Stephen's Green and also Grafton Street and all the shopping they would need for the day. Most other locations were within walking distance. The girls drove out to the airport first to drop off the car and took a taxi back into town. They didn't want to have to deal with trying to return the car early in the morning and then checking in for their flight. It seemed that the clerk at the front desk at the hotel knew them, but they had never met before.

They were escorted up to their room and were very surprised when the door was opened. This was no regular room, it was a suite! Not what they had signed up for. As Mona turned to the bellman, he smiled and said, “This was what they wanted for you.” And the girls knew at once that their lads had something to do with this. As they entered the room there was a huge bouquet of flowers on the center table with a note.

“We couldn't let you four beautiful ladies leave Ireland without a last night to remember. We can't be with you, but we have made arrangements for the evening. Be downstairs dressed for an evening out in 'the big smoke' at 7:00.” signed Paul, Ryan, Keith and Damian.

The girls were without words. This was truly a dream trip. They had no idea what to expect, but started getting ready as soon as they read the note. When they arrived in the lobby there was a college aged girl who approached them.
“Hi girls, me name's Aisling and the lads have given me instructions to help you have a great last night here in Dublin,” Aisling told the girls. “So let's get going!”

Aisling was great, and the girls liked her immediately. They headed toward Temple Bar and Oliver St. John Gogarty's. for some Irish dance lessons and a trad music session while they had some drinks. Aisling took pictures as the girls each had their try at dancing. Before long they were all sitting and heartily laughing.

“Time to move on girls,” Aisling directed, “We've got more to do this evening.”

Aisling hailed a taxi and as they all climbed in she directed the driver to the Gaiety Theater. As they pulled up there was a huge crowd outside starting to enter. The Gaiety was a restored Victorian theater originally built in 1871. The restoration was amazing right down the to old fire curtain. The production this night was Riverdance.

“Can't let you lassies leave without seeing an Irish production of Riverdance,” Aisling said. “I'll meet you all outside after the show. I've a few last minute things to take care of for the lads.”

The show was great and so were the second row seats. The girls could closely see the dance steps and movement of the dancers feet. Great music, costumes, and a wonderful overall performance.

As the girls left the theater Aisling was outside with another taxi.
“One last stop tonight girls and I hope this one really makes your trip memorable. Ha' Penny Bridge, driver,” Aisling shouted to the taxi driver.

The girls and Aisling exited the taxi at the Ha' Penny Bridge. As they girls headed toward the bridge access they noticed some bright lights and a set up that looked like a movie set.

“Okay, girls, this is your moment in the spotlight. You are each going to have a photo shoot and short video to make,” Aisling was smiling as she explained. “You will get both to keep, but so will the lads! So think carefully about what you say!”

After a short consultation with photographer, and each other, the girls started their video blog and photo shoot. Mona spoke about her expectations for an adventure in her trip and how honored she was to meet such a gentleman as Paul. Darcy spoke about how beautiful and scenic the landscape was everywhere they traveled, especially Giant's Causeway where she first met her 'hero', Ryan. How lucky she was to meet such a caring man. Briana followed with her blog to Damian. Briana's biggest memory was the time she spent walking the ancient walls of Derry. How amazing to be able to play some soccer in Derry with Damian. She apologized for beating him even if it was two on one! And finally Caitlin did her video memory including Keith. She mentioned how she would always be on the look out for another Big Red and definitely wanted to take some surfing lessons. Watching the surfers along the coast was a special memory. Yeowww!! She told him how he made her smile and how much she loved his voice when he sang.

After the video blogs the photographer set up the girls along the bridge edge for some solo photos and a few group photos. As this all happened the girls noticed that they had drawn quite a crowd thinking that they might be celebrities. They giggled at the thought as they finished up the photo shoot.

It was getting into the wee hours of the morning and the girls had an early flight. Aisling rode back to the hotel with them in the taxi and bid them farewell. They exchanged addresses so they could keep in touch and invited Aisling to come to America as they would love so show her around.

As the girls did their last packing they chatted about how amazing this last evening had been. They wanted to make sure to call each of the lads before the plane took off to thank them for this incredible evening and everything they had done. They couldn't wait to get the videos and pictures.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 15

This had been an amazing adventure for the four girls. As the limo arrived at the hotel, one by one, each couple left the limo as the lad escorted his date to their room to say a private good night. With the exception of Damian and Briana tender kisses and long embraces were had by all.

Damian was the first to escort Briana to the room. Their good-bye was a little awkward as their age demanded certain behavior. After some small talk Damian leaned in to Briana and kissed her on the cheek. This time Briana was not surprised as she was when they first met in Derry and returned a kiss on Damian's cheek. Damian wrapped his long arms around Briana as she did hers around him. They were new friends saying good-bye and held on for just a bit to keep the memory fresh. As they parted Damian whispered in Briana's ear, “See you in the States!” and turned to leave as she entered the room quite surprised at what she heard.

Keith and Caitlin had a similar awkward moment, but when Caitlin turned to Keith and said, “I'll miss riding in Big Red.” a big grin crossed Keith's face. He leaned in to her as he pulled her close. Caitlin had to stand on her tiptoes and almost felt Keith lift her off the ground as he took her breath away with a kiss to be remembered and strong hug to go with it. “Take some surfing lessons,” he said as he turned to leave. “You never know where you might find me again!”

Ryan was next to leave the limo with Darcy. He had his arm around her shoulder as they entered the hotel and never took it away all the way to the room. As they approached the door, he gently moved Darcy from beside him to in front of him. Ryan took his hands and put them on Darcy's face and pulled her close. As he did his hands moved back through her hair and around her head holding her in a soft, long lingering kiss. Darcy was almost light headed and hung on to Ryan moving her head to his shoulder after the kiss. “Who is going to help me the next time I sprain my ankle?” Darcy asked.
“You never know how things might change in time, Darcy,” was Ryan's answer. He gently kissed her on the head, turned her to the door and watched her enter, then left.

Mona and Paul had been quiet all this time in the limo. As Ryan returned they both knew it was their time to part. Paul kept his arm around Mona's waist much like he did the night of the concert. As they neared the door Paul asked, “Do you ever visit New York City?”
Mona was surprised by this question coming out of the blue. “I've been there a couple of times, but have never had a reason to really go back.”
“We'll have to keep in touch, as you may have found a reason,” as Paul winked and pulled Mona close.

If Mona was looking for Prince Charming she knew that she had just found him. A long intense kiss with strong arms supporting her was all she could remember at the moment. Was she in a dream? She opened her eyes as Paul broke the kiss and pulled away. There was that smile and twinkle in his eyes that she saw in the beginning. A prince of a man. He nodded his head, turned and headed back down the hall to the elevator and the limo. Mona floated into the room.

As the girls drifted off to sleep for the few hours left of the night they all dreamed of their perfect man. This trip to Ireland had been everything they had hoped it would be, and even more. Tomorrow they would travel back to Dublin for one last night before heading home.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 14

As they finished their dinner and dessert Ryan excused himself for a moment and then was back at the table nodding to Keith, Damian and Paul. The guys, as perfect gentlemen, helped to direct the girls back to the entrance of the restaurant. The girls figured they would be hailing a taxi and heading back to the hotel as it was around 10:00, but that was not the case.

When they exited the restaurant there was a black limousine waiting just outside the door. Ryan directed, “Just this way lassies.” and they all entered the limo. The girls had no idea what was to come next.

The limo driver only drove about ten minutes before he pulled up in front of another location. The girls couldn't see where it was with the tinted windows and the fact it was night outside, but as soon as they exited the limo they started to chuckle. The sign on the building said Rafters Bar and Restaurant. Right below the name was a sign that said “Karaoke Nightly”. When the girls saw this they knew was the lads had in mind.

They all entered and headed toward some seating that seemed to be reserved near the karaoke stage. Paul headed over to get things set up and Damian begged to be first. Halfway though his song, Paul jumped on to the stage to sing along. When Keith took his turn, Ryan almost bumped him off the stage to get some time at the microphone. Before they knew it the girls were standing along side the lads singing songs with them. The Guinness was flowing for most of them. Ryan preferred Grey Goose and cranberry, Paul liked his Bud Light, while Damian and Brianna stayed with non-alcoholic beverages.

At times there was so much laughter they were almost in tears. Darcy actually had a very good voice and the lads were impressed with her version of “I Will Survive”. They moved from genre to genre as the evening wore on. Keith doing some country with Wichita Lineman, and Damian doing a great Bobby Darrin version of Mack the Knife. Paul love to chose songs totally out of his genre and put his spin on them, while Ryan chose most of the softer songs. That all was until the lads were thoroughly relaxed and started to parody each other.

Before anyone realized it, the bar had emptied and they were the only ones left. Sadly it was time for the evening to end. They all headed out to the limo. Each of the girls sat closely snuggled with her date as the limo drove them back to the hotel. The girls dreaded the end of the evening knowing that it also meant that their vacation was coming to an end.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 13

The taxi dropped off the girls at the front of the Quaywest Bar and Restaurant. As they got out of the taxi they noticed Paul standing at the doorway smiling. There was just something about the look in his eyes that said something was up. Mona caught that immediately, but still had no idea.
“Ladies, if you will follow me, please,” Paul said as he led the girls inside past the bar to an area of tables with one large empty table. He nodded at a waitress as he passed by her and she headed off somewhere.

Briana was curious as to where the other guys were and couldn't contain herself, “Where are the others?”

“All in good time, Briana. Have a seat here,” Paul directed each of the girls to a specific seat. The large table was quite a way back in the restaurant and was almost private as it was not too crowded yet.

As soon as the girls were seated Paul excused himself and told them he would be back in a minute. The girls looked as Paul as he left and then at each other with confusion. As soon as Paul left the girls heard some music. But it was not coming from the bar. It was coming from the door where Paul retreated.

Darcy turned and tapped Mona on the shoulder and motioned to the other girls to look at the door. Through the door came Paul, Ryan, Keith and Damian singing Will Ye Go Lassie, Go with Keith playing his guitar. The girls were in shock. As the guys came closer they noticed that each of the guys had a red rose to hand to their date. What amazed the girls was how well they sang in harmony as if they had done this together before. They seemed so at ease with each other as they sang. They knew that Paul and Ryan knew each other, but not about Keith and Damian.

As they finished the song and the girls clapped for them they all took seats next to the girls and handed them the red roses. This was without a doubt something very special and the girls wanted to savor every moment. They blushed with a little embarrassment and all started talking at once. And then the laughter started.

The guys did admit that they all knew each other professionally and had sung together before with some others in a tour through the US. The girls could not believe that they had never heard of the group that was promoted through PBS. They figured that other than the fact they didn't watch much PBS, their personal lives were very busy and they really had not gone to many concerts. They promised the lads that the next tour they would be front and center.

It was an incredible evening. All the couples enjoyed the evening and it was entirely too short. The restaurant had delicious food and they all enjoyed a small glass of wine to toast that they were all together. Each couple looked like they had known each other for a long time and meshed well.

Darcy and Ryan were busy talking sports a lot of the evening, while Mona and Paul discussed travel and music in general. Briana and Damian were busy chatting about soccer and unforgettable games they had played, and Caitlin and Keith talked about traveling the world and Keith's surfing.

Before they knew it dinner was done and all eight finished a small desert dish. The girls figured that the evening would be soon coming to an end, but the lads had something else in mind. They knew that the next day the girls would be heading back to Dublin, and then on back home and wanted to make this evening something for them to remember. Since the lads all had music in common they wanted to end the evening with a fun event.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 12

Friday morning arrived and the girls awoke feeling refreshed and well rested. As soon as they finished breakfast they headed for the Foyleside Shopping Center and the Dunnes Store to see what outfits they could find to wear that night, even though they had no idea where they would be going. The girls split up to get to the different departments so they would be done early. Mona wanted something sleek and classy that would fit being with Paul. Darcy wanted something sporty, but conservative to wear with Ryan. Briana wanted something fun and flirty to wear with Damian, and Caitlin wanted something funky to wear with Keith and she wanted to find a hat to go with her outfit.

As they girls were busy shopping one cell phone call started them all ringing, one by one. Paul called Mona and told her that they should all meet at Quaywest for dinner at 7:00PM. He and Ryan would be there. Mona contacted the other girls and had them call Keith and Damian and make sure that would be okay with them. The girls also told Keith and Damian that there would be some others joining them. When Caitlin mention to Keith about Paul and Ryan she was sure she heard him chuckle, but couldn't be positive. When Briana told Damian, there was a pause at his end and then he told her it would be great craic.

The girls had no idea what was in for them that evening. Little did they know that their calls had started a flurry of other calls. They finished shopping all with amazing new outfits and headed back to their hotel in Derry City to get ready for the evening. Quaywest was further than a walk, so the girls decided to take a taxi.They wanted to look nice and fresh for the evening.

The taxi ride was full of chatter about each of them meeting each of the lads and making a fabulous connection while they were on vacation. Mona and Darcy, while totally enchanted with Paul and Ryan, reminded the younger girls that this was a vacation and they would probably not be seeing or hearing from the guys after they returned home. While Briana and Caitlin dreamed about future dates, they did realize that this was an adventure and something they should cherish for the time being and not think too far ahead.

The girls chattered recalling how each of them met each of the lads under some unusual circumstances that many people would not believe. Their trip was now almost ending and it had brought with it the adventures that they were all open to when they left home. All of them had fallen in love with Ireland, both the Republic and Northern Ireland. As the taxi drew near to the restaurant their excitement increased. When they thought about it, they hardly knew these lads, but trusted they were in for a memorable evening.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 11

Donegal was picturesque. The girls headed to Genveagh Castle (http://www.glenveaghnationalpark.ie/) to walk around the grounds of the park. They would have liked to spend more time and follow some of the hiking trails but that would have to wait for another trip. Keith had recommended the Inishowen Lodge (http://www.inishowenlodge.com/) overlooking the water and he knew what he was doing. The place was amazing. None of this was very far from Derry, but there were so many sights to see that the girls were already making a list for their next trip.

Malin Head (http://www.malinhead.ie/Homepage.html) was a hike that the girls had time for and bundled up for the windy area. While the weather was pretty warm, they had been warned that the winds of Malin Head could knock you right into the ocean. And the information had not been wrong. There were times when the girls held on to each other to steady themselves.

It was a full day and the girls were exhausted. They found a small pub for some dinner and headed back to their room at the B&B. The plan was to head back to Derry the next day and get settled. They would spend one day around the Derry countryside and be ready for Friday evening when they would hope to meet up with the guys they had met.

The girls wanted to do a little shopping in Derry so they had something nice to wear for Friday evening. As they traveled through out Ireland they watched the Irish fashions and wanted to each get outfits so they didn't look as American as they did everywhere they went. Of course, the minute they had something to say, everyone knew they were American.

They tried to imagine what their night in Derry would be like meeting up with the lads they had met along the way. The did realized that all of the lads were involved with music in some way. Ryan and Paul knew each other, Keith had been playing locally forever, and Damian was going to school for performing arts. They found this unique connection very interesting. But other then Paul and Ryan they never expected that they would know each other.

The morning arrived and the girls set out for a little time in Bundoran before heading back to Derry. They took the time to go out to the beach area to watch some surfers. This seemed like a very popular area. They were about to leave when Caitlin noticed Big Red in the parking area. She just had to see if Keith was one of the surfers out on the water. And sure enough, as she scanned the water she spotted him riding a wave in. She had to giggle to herself as it just seemed so odd to be watching a surfer in Ireland.

It was difficult not to be noticed by the surfers. Keith spotted the girls and recognized them immediately. He waved as he came in from his ride carrying his board. Caitlin was a little embarrassed because she was hoping he would not see them and just wanted to watch without being noticed.

“So you fancy doing a little surfing?” Keith asked the girls as he approached.

“Oh, no, we were just watching,” Caitlin answered. “I was surprised to see you here.”

“Best waves today, otherwise I'd be somewhere else. Where you off to?” Keith seemed so at home in his wet suit and holding on to his board.

“We're doing the Derry countryside,” Mona answered. “Any recommendations?”

“It's all good,” Keith replied. “Time to catch another ride before the surf dies. See you Friday.”

The girls bid Keith good bye and headed for some more touring before they went back to Derry for some shopping.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 10

The girls arrived back at the B&B late and knew they would be getting up early. They were asleep as soon as their heads hit their pillows dreaming about all that had happened to them since their arrival in Ireland.

Caitlin was the only one who really had to wake up early to meet Keith and get to the tire repair shop. As she rushed down the stairs to grab some breakfast before heading out she ran into Siobhan.

“You do know that Keith will not be hear until about noon, don't you?” Siobhan asked Caitlin.

“What? I thought he said he'd be here bright and early to pick me up.” Caitlin was confused.

“Lassie, when Keith has a gig at night, he rarely pulls himself out of bed before eleven. We all know that around here. I'd be real surprised to see him before noon.” Siobhan explained.

Caitlin was a little upset that she had listened to Keith and fallen for his early wake up line. Since she was all ready, she settled into the dining room and had herself a proper Ulster Fry for breakfast and some nice Barry's tea. As she was finishing up Brianna came down for breakfast and was surprised to find Caitlin.

“Don't tell me you've been stood up?" Brianna teased.

“Put a cork in a Brianna. He's late, and I'm still waiting,” Caitlin was not pleased at all.

But as she chastised Brianna, Caitlin noticed Big Red pull up outside. Siobhan was off a little. Guess there was a reason for Keith to get out of bed early. She just hoped he was not regretting the offer to help her get a new tire.

“Mornin' Siobhan, how's about some brekkie?” Keith called to Siobhan as he entered and sat down next to Caitlin and Brianna grabbing an extra cup and pouring himself some tea.

“Guess I got you up a little early this morning,” Caitlin was trying to see if Keith was out of sorts from rising so early.

“No trouble, Caitlin, I would have been up to catch a surf today otherwise. But the waves are not that great today, so I'm here,” Keith smiled as he answered.

Siobhan set a full Ulster Fry in front of Keith and it was apparent he was very pleased with it. After a few minutes Brianna excused herself to go out walking and left Keith and Caitlin alone. Caitlin tried no to stare too much at Keith as he ate, but she was now taking some time to really look at this blond surfer next to her while not to be too obvious to Keith. He wore a knit hat covering most of his hair and showing more of his face than the day before. Caitlin noticed he has striking features and wonderful blue eyes.

Keith turned and smiled at her. He knew she had been staring at him, but tried not to embarrass her about it.

“Ready to go?” he asked. He must have inhaled his breakfast he was finished so quickly.

Caitlin and Keith headed out the door with a wave to Siobhan that they would be back soon and to let the other girls know when they have left. It only took a few minutes to get to the tire shop and Keith handled everything only referring to Caitlin as the person who needed the new tire. Caitlin could tell by the casual conversation that Keith knew this person and had done business with him before. Luckily the shop had a replacement tire on hand, which Caitlin paid for and Keith loaded into Big Red. The two chatted about Keith's music from the night before on the way back to the B&B. Caitlin felt very at ease with Keith and he seemed the same with her. She was thrilled that she would be seeing him again when they returned to Derry in a day or two.

When they arrived back at the B&B Keith set about replacing the spare tire and putting on the new one. The rest of the girls were up and had brought their luggage down from the rooms. As Kieth finished they all loaded up the car to set off for the day.

Caitlin hesitated as they all got into the car so she and Keith had a few moments to themselves.

“I do hope to see you when we get back to Derry. It will be our last weekend to party before we head back home,” she was hoping Keith was still going to be there so she could see him again.

“No worries, you got my cell, right? Give me a ring and I'll be there. I'm ready for a weekend of Derry craic!” Keith was smiling as he assured Caitlin.

With that the girls headed off to Donegal and a few extra sites recommended by Keith. They had realized that their vacation was much shorter than they expected and wanted to make the most of these last few days.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 9

It was later than they expected and the girls had not had dinner yet. Siobhan recommended a pub a couple of miles back down the road from where they had come. She said it had great pub grub and there would probably be some music as some of the locals always stopped by to sing a few songs and see if the people liked them.
“I'm sure you'll like it,' she said with a smile and looked at Caitlin and winked.

“What the heck did that mean?” was all Caitlin could think.

They knew that they could do a little driving with the spare tire but not too much, so the pub down the road was a perfect distance. They got themselves settled in the B&B, freshened up, and headed out to the pub for some dinner and music. At least some good music would make up for all the problems they had today with the flat tire. That was one of the things they had come to Ireland for was the music.

Briana couldn't help but tease Caitlin about Keith. Caitlin tried to ignore it but her complaints about not meeting anyone in Ireland had changed when Keith came along to help them with the flat tire. It was only a brief meeting, except for him taking her by the repair shop tomorrow. Not at all like all the other girls who had even exchanged phone numbers with the guys that they met and had plans to meet when they returned to Derry. Caitlin was very disappointed but she tried not to show it.

Shantallow House was back over the boarder to Northern Ireland. The girls were amazed at how everyone moved back and forth across this border as if it didn't even exist. They parked the car and walked into the darkened pub. It was full of antique type fixtures and had a great warm feel. Since they were going to eat dinner they didn't want to sit at the bar. They did order their stews and fish and chips at the bar along with their drinks. They chose a snug that was close to what they thought would be the stage. The barman told them the music didn't start until close to 10PM. With everything that happened and the long sunny days in Ireland, they had not realized it was already 8:30. There were a few other people at the bar and at booths who noticed the girls as they came in. It was not to often that Americans came to this local pub. They had grown accustomed to these looks and just smiled and went to their snug.

As they ate their meal and chatted about the day's events and things to come the time passed quickly. The pub filled up with more and more people, some coming by to acknowledge them as they realized they were visitors. At one point a few girls their age stopped by the snug and stood and talked for a while, asking questions about their trip and America. While they were talking they didn't notice that someone was getting set up on the stage area. Once the Irish girls left, their attention turned toward the stage and they were all surprised to see Keith. As he turned he looked over to them, smiled that dimpled smile and winked at Caitlin. She immediately blushed.

This was hardly what the girls expected. At ten o'clock Keith tapped the microphone and said hello to the crowd that had gathered. He said he was working on some new material and wanted to know what the crowd thought of it. As he worked through the songs the girls realized that he was quite a good singer and also a talented song writer. He had a very natural style and unique voice to accompany his songs.

Periodically he would glance over to the snug and Caitlin with a nod or a wink. During one of his breaks, one of the local girls who had stopped by earlier came by again and told Caitlin it appeared that he had taken a liking to her. Caitlin brushed off the comment but inside she was tickled that someone had noticed her.

After his second break Keith left the stage and walked over to visit the girls at their table.
“So's what do you think?” he asked.

“I love your music, Keith,” Caitlin answered before anyone else could say anything.

“Thank you, Caitlin. It's beer o'clock for me and then I'll sing another couple. Need to get my sleep so's I can get up in the morning to take you to the tire shop. Where are you headed after here?”

“We're going to Donegal for a day and then heading back to Derry to meet some new friends.” Darcy piped in.

“Yeowww!! That means you'll be in Derry again on Friday, right?”

“That's what we're hoping,” Briana answered.

“Then maybe I can see you all then,” Keith said as he looked at Caitlin. “I'm usually at Sandino's during the weekend gigging with some friends. Let me give you my cell number so you can give me a wee call.”

Caitlin could barely conceal her excitement. Finally she had me someone.

The Dream Trip - Chapter 8

The day had been a good one for all the girls. The tour of Derry was just what Mona n Darcy were looking for. While they were at lunch they talked with some people from the Derry area who gave them a great idea for where to stay just outside the city so they could head to County Donegal the next day. When the girls met up Briana and Caitlin shared their adventure about Damain. Darcy and Mona laughed at how the two girls had made quick friends with this boy because of their love of soccer and listened to Briana mention several time how Damian had kissed her on the cheek.

They headed out of Derry to the B &B that had been suggested. Darcy had called ahead to make sure they had enough room for the girls to stay. It would take a good couple of hours to get there, but this was summer and it stayed light out almost to 10PM. The girls figured they had plenty of time. Mona had taken over the driving because of Darcy's sprained ankle. There was not too much traffic on the two-lane road and the girls were busy chatting away. Before Mona could swerve out of the way the car hit a huge rock planted right smack in the middle of the road. Mona pulled over to check for any damage. The rental car didn't have any damage, but they did have a flat tire.

“Now what?”, Mona shouted. She was angry with herself for not being able to avoid the rock.

“Guess we're going to have to change the tire,” Caitlin felt this would be an easy thing to tackle. If any guy could do it surely they could handle it.

“So who here has changed a flat before?” Briana was feeling confident that at least one of the older girls had experience at this.

They all looked at each other and realized they were in big trouble. After some discussion they decided that they would try to tackle this as a group and opened up the trunk of the car looking for the spare tire. In order to do this they had to completely unload all their luggage. So with everything unloaded they looked into the empty trunk and saw nothing. The entire time they were doing this not one vehicle had passed them on the road. They also called the rental agency and were told that if they wanted someone to come out to where they were located it would take at least 4 hours! It would be dark by then, so there was not much of a choice, but to do this themselves.

Suddenly they heard what sounded like a motorcycle engine coming down the road. But it wasn't a motorcycle, it was like a more powerful dune buggy with a surf board sticking out the back. They all turned to wave for help as the driver passed by them. He waved back and kept going! At this point they figured they were going to be stranded on the side of the road all night. Not familiar enough with the area, they had no idea how far they were from any help. Fifteen minutes must have passed when they heard a bigger smoother engine and saw a huge red 4WD coming from the other direction.

“Hey girlies!” the driver shouted as he pulled off the road in front of the rental car. “What's the craic?”

The girls were not quite sure what this tall blond haired lad was asking.

“Sorry it took me so long to get back, but I figured Big Red here was needed. Yeow, what a flat!”

And immediately the girls realized that this was the guy in the over-sized dune buggy. He looked so out of place here in Ireland. Seems he should have been on the beaches of California surfing with his long blond hair and trim good looks. While the other girls were still trying to collect themselves over the whole situation, Caitlin stepped up and explained their situation.

“It appears we don't have a spare tire. We're more than capable of changing it ourselves,” she tried to be confident with this handsome stranger.

The lad burst out laughing as he walked over the to rental car and lifted up the carpet pad to the trunk to reveal the spare tire. “Is this what you are lookin' for? Seems as long as I found it, I might as well help you out here.”

He didn't wait for a reply as he removed the jack and the spare. After a quick look at the jack, he walked over to his vehicle an pulled out a jack that was amazingly more substantial, chuckling all the way and shaking his head. As he did this, Caitlin only got angrier as she felt he was making fun of them.

As he passed the girls heading to the flat tire he said, “So's I'm Keith. How about a hand over here,” he motioned to Caitlin. “Good thing all those heavy bags are out. This will be pretty quick. But this spare is not for long trip drivin' ya' know?”

“We'll just have to find a gas station and get it fixed. Is there one down the road?” Caitlin asked as she grudgingly held the lug nuts that Keith removed from the wheel.

“Love, you'll not find one open tonight. And from the looks of this tire, you are goin' to need a replacement. The shop won't be open until tomorrow morning and that's if they have the right size.”

The girls turned to each other surprised. They had not expected to have to replace a tire and were worried about finding a replacement. Things were not going very well at all at the moment and Mona was feeling worse about hitting the rock.

“Where you'll be tonight?” Keith asked.

“We're staying at a B&B about 10 miles form here according to the directions we have. Why do you ask?” Caitlin was curious but cautious.

“Well, if you want, I can take this bad tire in tomorrow for you. But one of you will have to come with me to make sure the new one is ordered. I know the lad who owns the repair shop. Don't want him to give you any trouble,” Keith truly sounded like he knew what he was doing and at this point they had no other choice.

Once the spare was on, luggage put back in the trunk, and the flat loaded in Big Red, Keith followed the girls to the B&B to make sure they got checked in okay, even though they felt they could handle this part. As they entered the B&B they were surprised again.

“Well, hey, Keith, how's it going?” the B&B owner greeted Keith.

“Siobhan, yeowwww, surf was great today! Got me a good ride. These girlies here from America got a flat a ways back and I helped them out. Now delivering them to you for the night.” again he chuckled. “So Caitlin, I'll be by about 10 tomorrow mornin' with Big Red, be ready!” And Keith was out the door.

Siobhan, welcomed the girls and got them settled in their rooms. Briana could tell that Caitlin was taken by Keith and his handsome blond good looks, not to mention his dimples, even though she pretended to be put off by him and his mannerisms.

“See Caitlin, I knew you would meet someone,” Briana teased Caitlin.

“Right. So he was here and gone,” Caitlin was not too impressed by her short meeting, although she did say that the surfer look on this guy was pretty impressive for Ireland..

The Dream Trip - Chapter 7

The drive to Derry was a couple of hours from Ballymena. It would have been shorter, but the views were scenic and the conversation lively as it once again revolved around Paul and Ryan, how different they were, but how very handsome they were also. It was obvious that Darcy and Mona were spellbound by these two Irishmen. As they crossed the bridge entering Derry they all were excited at the sight of the peace statue that is so well known. They headed toward the multilevel parking lot and got settled and headed out for some sightseeing. Darcy was moving slow, but considering her condition yesterday, she had recovered a lot with Ryan's help.

Since Darcy was moving slowly the girls split up. Caitlin and Briana headed to the ancient walls to walk around them. Darcy and Mona headed to the tourist office to see about a bus tour so Darcy didn't have to do too much walking. The agreed to meet back at the Bishop's Gate later that afternoon.

The ancient walls of Derry were amazingly intact. They circled the town almost completely except for one area that had been destroyed or opened up for traffic. The girls began their walk and took all the pictures of the sites. Just past the second gate Briana stopped full.

“Look!” she called to Caitlin.

Briana was pointing to a soccer field just outside the gate and down a small hill.

“Let's go check it out,” she was starting down steps of the gate before Caitlin could protest.

Briana spent all her high school years playing soccer and would probably play at college, even though she didn't apply to a college for soccer. She missed the daily workout and practice now that school was out for the summer. As she reached the field she spotted a soccer ball setting in the goal area. She looked around and didn't see anyone, so headed over to the ball. She was in heaven. And Caitlin had no choice but to join her in the fun. They dribbled and shot some goals off each other, passed the ball back and for the for about fifteen minutes before they heard a shout.

“Hey use! That's my ball,” came a call from the sidelines.

There stood a tall boy, about Briana's age with a cup of soda in his hand. Briana picked up the ball and she and Caitlin headed to the boy.

“Sorry, I just saw the ball sitting by the goal and thought it was left there. I've been missing playing so much I just wanted to say I had played some soccer in Ireland.”

“Well then, how 'bout use two play me. We'll do half field,” an the boy picked up the ball and started off to mid field. What he didn't expect was that these two girls were very good and worked well together. It wasn't more than fifteen minutes and he was dripping with sweat.

“Okay, I give. This should have been one on one,” as he laughed and picked up his drink and gulped it down. “Where are use two from?” He asked.

After some small chatter, he asked if the girls had eaten lunch yet. The girls had realized that it was just after lunch and they had not eaten. They didn't feel they had to worry about this boy and still had time before they needed to meet the other girls. So the three decided to get some fast food that was close by.

As they walked to the small diner Briana watched this boy with interest. He was tall and lanky. But with his dark hair, blushed cheeks, and very blue eyes he was a cuter than any other boy she had known through high school. Every once in a while he'd glance over at her and she could see a look that told her he was also a prankster. She loved the way he would raise an eyebrow as he joked with the girls.

“Me names Damian, so who are you two?”

The girls introduced themselves and the three spent time talking about soccer in Ireland and the US. Damian seemed to direct most of his conversation to Briana. She had scored against him twice and he was obviously impressed. They were also the same age. Damian told them he was going to college in Derry for performing arts and today they had a three hour break between classes. He liked to burn off excess energy and usually comes to the soccer field for a workout. He had left his ball so he could go around the corner and grab a drink. When he came back he was surprised to see two girls playing each other with his ball on the field.

As the conversation continued Damian's questions became a little more personal. Being polite he asked both girls if they had boyfriends in America and what they thought about Irish boys. He watched Briana carefully as she responded and her cheeks started to turn pink in embarrassment. In turn the girls asked Damian the same. He said at the moment he was free and single because his life was so busy. He added that he was always interested in meeting new people.

“Are use going to be staying in Derry very long?” Damian asked as he continued. “I was wondering if we could meet again?”

Caitlin answered this one saying, “We're only her for a day today, but we'll be back on Friday. We thought that would be a good time to hear some music. What do you think?”

“Friday would be great!” Damian declared with some excitement in his voice. “That means the weekend and we can meet again. I love to hit the clubs on the weekend. Oh, that is if use want to.”

Briana immediately responded with glee, “Of course we could meet again!” She was liking this boy better and better by the moment. “Maybe you could show us around some?”

Damian agreed and gave the girls his cell number so they could call him when they arrived back in Derry. It was time for Caitlin and Briana to meet up with Darcy and Mona, and for Damian to head back to classes. As they got up from the table and were walking out the door, Damian took a hold of Briana's arm to slow her down and leaned down and kissed her lightly on the cheek.

Before Briana could react Damian was off at a run laughing and shouting back, “See use later!”

Caitlin was a little despondent. “Okay, what's the matter with me? You all have met these incredible guys and here I am all alone. I'm really feeling like a 4rth wheel here.”

“Caitlin, I'm sure your time will come. Besides I'm not so sure about this Damian guy. This performing arts college. What does he thing he's going to become some big celebrity? He may be just like all the charmers in high school. You know, love 'em and leave 'em,” and Briana laughed, touching her cheek where Damian had kissed it.

Travels in Eire - Epilogue

The party lasted well into the wee hours of the morning. There was so much to celebrate besides the marriage of Darren and Cailin. The reunion of Conner with his parents and the first opportunity to see their first grandchild was a bonus that no one expected, especially Maura and Philip. And Cailin's gran was in attendance and had the opportunity to meet Rorey, her distant relative.

Besides her boss, a few of the girls from her office made the trip across the pond for the wedding. Not surprisingly, they found a couple of Darren's friends to be quite accommodating and charming. Cailin would not be surprised to hear of one or two deciding to come back and visit again soon. Declan seemed to take a liking to one of the GOTT girls from Derry. She was wearing a huge smile all night long. In passing Cailin warned Declan that he better be a perfect gentleman with her, or Darren would be coming after him. Declan laughed commenting that he was always a slightly imperfect gentleman, but he did get the warning.

When Conner and Darren had a minute to talk, Conner explained that he, Jessica and little John were in attendance at the wedding. They had slipped in the side door while Darren was outside waiting for Cailin to arrive. They stayed at the back of the church so as not to be seen and sneaked out as soon as the ceremony was over, so they could get to the hotel and hide in their room until Declan told them all was ready. Conner laughed when Darren told him how upset he was after the ceremony.

“Brother, I just had to pull this one last one over on you,” Conner teased. And they hugged until they almost fell over. Maura and Philip took John up to the room to bed so that Jessica and Conner could enjoy the party.

Keith kept the music rocking the house much of the night. Damian sang a couple of popular tunes, and Ryan joined in with a few of his new songs that had just been written. At some point the music turned from dance and rock music to an Irish session with everyone sitting around listening to tunes they had grown up hearing all around.

And as always with the band, there were a few lasses for whom Keith, Damian and Ryan had caught their eyes and sat mesmerized watching the musicians.

Most of the attendees had reservations at the Connemara Coast Hotel for the night ,knowing it would be a long party and there would be much drinking and craic. It must have been around four in the morning when the crowd grew thin and the band packed up. The bar had officially closed hours earlier, but Declan made sure there was an extra supply of whiskey and beer under a table.

Cailin and the other young women headed off to their rooms while the men had their last few toasts of the night.

Tomorrow began a new life for Cailin as the wife of Darren Ryan.

Thinking back to her summer vacation, which in itself was a get away from New York City, Cailin smiled knowing that she was now exactly where she belonged. Only new adventures awaited both Cailin and Darren together as a couple and she knew that whatever life threw at them, they would weather any storm.

End.

Travels in Eire #75

Declan lead Cailin and Darren into the reception room at the Connemara Coast Hotel.
“Ladies and gentlemen, the Mr. and Mrs. have arrived, finally!” he announced as they entered to a huge cheer.

Cailin and Darren were lead to the center of a long table decorated in white linens and crystal glasses. Everything seemed to sparkle, including the chandelier in the center of the room. The colors were lush deep greens and blues with draperies bordering the windows that looked out past the rocky shore to Galway Bay. The bride and groom were flanked by the groomsmen and bridesmaids. As Cailin and Darren looked past their table they saw their families sitting a round tables just to the outside of the long table with a dance floor set up right in front of them.

Suddenly there was a uproar of clinking of crystal glasses calling for a kiss between the bride and groom. Cailin and Darren obliged willingly with a long loving kiss. Then a shorter tapping of a glass followed by a “here, here” for an announcement.
Declan was the bearer of the glass and appeared ready to make the first official toast. He began,
“A first official toast is a very special one and should always be given by a family member. I may be a great friend of Darren's, but I'm not a family member.”

As Declan held everyone's attention and continued his speech on family, that seemed to be endless, a figure slipped in the door and quietly moved to the back of the room.

“So to conclude this toast, I ask, is there a family member who would like to make this first toast to our lovely couple?” Declan glanced over to Philip as if he expected Philip to make the toast.

The lone figure at the back of the room announced, “I would be honored to bring the first toast to this celebration for my brother and his new wife!”

The room was abuzz. Maura suddenly broke down in tears and Philip was holding her, while Philip himself was beaming. Their son, Conner, had come home.

As he talked, Conner moved to the center of the room. Darren's older brother had a polish to him that Darren had not seen before. Obviously this had to do with his banking job in America. Darren also noticed out of the corner of his eye that Jessica, Conner's wife had slipped into the room holding their son, John. Maura did not catch this yet as her eyes were glued to Conner.

“My brother has discovered that there are some very special women who come here to visit and end up stealing an Irishman's heart. His Irish sweetheart will be there for him when times are difficult, and when times are sweet. This I know as I have found my American sweetheart who fills my everyday. Conner glanced back to Jessica as she acknowledged Conner's statement.
And my toast is this Irish blessing:
There are 4 things you must never do: lie, steal, cheat, or drink.
But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love.
If you must steal, steal away from bad company.
If you must cheat, cheat death.
And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away...
May you both live as long as you want, And never want as long as you live.
Slainte!”

And the party began.

Travels in Eire #74

The ride to the Connemara Coast Hotel was in Darren's parent's car, but it was just Darren and Cailin. They wanted to have just a few moments together to savor the ceremony and would not have the time as the day wore on. Cailin noticed that Darren seemed a little distracted. She had become more adept at reading him over time. Most emotions she could easily read, but there was something else here.

“Darren, is everything okay? What is it?” Cailin gently tried to pry Darren's closed demeanor open.

“I just thought....No I was sure......It was supposed to be......,” is all Darren would say.
“Darren, you are making no sense. What was supposed to be?” Cailin was totally confused.

“I trusted him to make it happen. He told me he could handle it just fine.” and now Darren was getting angry.

“Darren, stop! Pull over here!” Cailin demanded and Darren responded by pulling to the side of the road just a short way from the hotel.

Darren turned to Cailin and responded, “My brother.”

“What about your brother?” Cailin realized there was something she did not know about that was not happening the way Darren had planned.

“He was supposed to fly over with his wife and baby and be here for the wedding. He promised he would make this visit. I thought I would see him at the church, but I didn't. I haven't heard from him for the last 3 days when they were supposed to leave America,” Darren's voice was shaking from both concern and disappointment.

“Darren, there is nothing you can do about it at this point. We have a few hundred guests waiting for us at a reception. What about your parents? Do they know?” Cailin was still trying to get some information from Darren.

“It was to be a huge surprise for them with my brother coming to visit with his wife and the baby. I was so worried about you arriving at the church late that I totally forgot that I should have seen him also. Then there was the rush to the ceremony and now,” Darren was almost shaking. “I have no way to contact him.”

“Darren, I don't know how to help you through this. I'm really surprised about this whole thing. You never told me either. I wish I knew what to do for you,” Cailin was on the verge of tears with worry for Darren's brother. “We can't sit here like this. We need to get to the reception and have someone help. I'm sure your da would know what to do.”

“Cailin, I need to get over this. It's OUR wedding day and I'm ruining it with this problem that has upset me so much. I'll share the information with my parents when we have a minute at the reception and then we'll all work it out together.” Darren was putting on his work face as a problem solver and determined not to let this spoil the reception.

As they turned into the parking lot Declan was pacing back and forth in front of the door. He had a worried look on his face that lit up when he saw Cailin and Darren pull in.

“What in God's earth has taken the two of you so long? The hotel rooms are here! Everyone is waitin' on ya,” he shouted breathlessly. “And Darren I need you first. There's some trouble a brewin', and we need to take care of it. Cailin can you just wait here for a few?” Declan ordered. He seemed so much more in charge than earlier today.

It was only a few moments when Darren returned and seemed a lot more relaxed.

“Darren, what was that all about?” Cailin knew something was up.

“All in due time, honey, all in due time,” and he smiled the smile that caught Cailn's eye from the beginning.

Travels in Eire #73

Cailin sat in the back of the car with her gown carefully placed so as not to wrinkle or soil it. Her mother sat next to her and her father sat next to Declan. The church was only a few miles away, so it was a short drive and would only take a few minutes. At least that was what everyone thought!

Just as Declan turned on to the main road heading toward the church, the car started to make a strange sound. Declan calmed everyone with his words, “No worries all, it always does that.”

But as they traveled the road the sound turned into a grinding, and then everyone could smell something burning. Declan pulled over to the side of the road and started shouting, “Everyone out, quickly!”

As Cailin exited the car she could see black smoke coming from the engine compartment. She, her mum and dad had a look of horror on their faces. Declan just had a dumbfounded look of surprise.

“Guess we are going to have to find some alternative transportation,” Declan announced.

None of the passengers had their cell phones with them and there was no one they could contact at this point. Cailin was trying to stay calm, but in her anger all she could do was laugh. Before she realized it, all of them were roaring with laughter.

“Okay, I'm going to start walking,” Cailin announced. “There doesn't seem to be any traffic on the road today, so there is no catching a ride.”

What a scene, with Cailin's mum and dad helping Cailin to hold up the train to her gown as they walked down the road followed by Declan as he mumbled to himself about the fact that he should have had his car fixed before this. On a calm summer day this would have been fine, but as always on the Connemara coast there is at least a slight breezed coming off Galway Bay, or sometimes a strong wind. Today was a moderate breeze and Cailin's veil was like a tail on a kite, blowing in the wind, as they walked along. They still had about a mile to go and were already late for the ceremony.

As they walked they started to hear a sound behind them. It was a clopping sound of a horse and cart. Declan hailed down the driver and before anyone knew it, Cailin and crew were situated in the cart trotting down the road behind a white Connemara pony. The cart was not made for passengers, so here was Cailin sitting on the back with her legs hanging off and her gown carefully tucked up still trying to keep it fresh and clean. The fresh part was pretty much gone now, but she did the best and her mum held her veil from flying all over as they trotted along.

It did take longer than expected and as they arrived at the church a few people were standing outside looking for them to arrive, including a worried Darren. When he saw this pony and cart coming down the road and got a glimpse of Cailin in her white gown he doubled over in laughter. It was just so much like their lives – everything totally unexpected.

One of the groomsmen headed in to the church to let everyone know that Cailin had arrived. Once everyone was in place, and Mary and Sean seated, the ceremony began. Despite the wrinkles and slight soils in Cailin's gown, and extra tendrils of her unruly hair that had fallen from her up do, Darren looked down the aisle knowing in his heart there was no one else he would have chosen to be his wife. Life would bring many unexpected surprises and they would weather them together both in joy and sadness.

The ceremony that followed was touching and memorable. Ryan's voice and choice of music carried the congregation through with tears and laughter. The church was full of well-wishers and friendly faces. Cailin and Darren tried to absorb every minute.

They suddenly realized it will all done as the priest asked to turn to the congregation and introduced them as Mr. and Mrs. Darren Ryan. A huge cheer filled the sanctuary as Darrren and Cailin headed out of the church and on to the reception at the Connemara Coast Hotel.

Travels in Eire #72

The morning crept in quickly as everyone was still sleeping except for Maura and Mary as they started breakfast. Soon the aromas of Irish fry wafted through the house and one by one everyone woke up. The best cure for a sore head is a good greasy Irish fry and as the plates were put on the table those who stayed the night at the B&B took at seat at the table.

Ryan and Damian had taken the last empty room upstairs. Darren shared his room with Keith, so thankful that the B&B had rooms for all. Darren, Keith, Ryan, and Damian all looked like they had partied hard, but seemed to be bouncing back with the breakfast and hot cup of Barry's tea. The table filled up and once again there was plenty of chat and laughter.

As soon as they finished Keith, Ryan and Damian headed for the Connemara Coast Hotel to check out arrangements there, shower, dress and head to the church. Cailin headed to her room followed closely by her mother.

“Cailin, I just want to check and make sure everything is okay with you.” her mother stated as she closed the room door behind herself.

“What do you mean, mum,” Cailin responded.

“Cailin this all seems to have happened so quickly and I just wanted to make sure you have no reservations about this wedding,” Cailin's mom looked at her with a slightly worried look on her face.

“Mum, I just realized the other day that I have never been happier. Working here in Ireland and being part of my heritage has been such a blessing. I feel like I belong here, more than any where. This is home to me. I know you will be so far away, but it's only a plane flight and I can come and visit anytime. And I hope you and dad will be over here more often.” Cailin tried to calm her mother's fears.

“Then I guess you had better get into the shower, or you will be late for your wedding. Hardly right to keep your future husband waiting on your wedding day!” her mother smiled.

Cailin had not tried on her wedding dress since the day it was purchased in New York. She decided to do her hair up as Ruth had suggested with two tendrils curled to the front. Her makeup had a light touch to show her beautiful white skin. A touch of green eye shadow with a dark purple eyeliner to accent her green eyes and a little mascara finished the look. She wore on piece of jewery around her neck – the Connemara heart that Darren gave her. She changed the leather chain to a silver one for the wedding. Her earrings were small diamonds that her grandmother had given her. Her last accessory was a green garter that she slipped on to her leg as she smiled. She turned to look in the mirror and smiled. It was just perfect.

There was a knock at the door and Cailin jumped as she was startled out of her thoughts. It was her father.

“Time to go Cailin,” he said slowly as he looked at her lovingly. “You look beautiful,” and Cailin could see his eyes tear up.

“Dad, please, I'll be in tears if you start,” Cailin tried to chide him into a smile.

Cailin's mom came in the room and had that same look on her face, but it was more. There was also a look of pride.

“Honey, Darren and his parents have already left for the church so he doesn't see you. We need to get going. They have a friend driving us there and he is waiting outside.”

Cailin, her mum and dad headed out the door. As Cailin looked at the car waiting for them she had to laugh. It was Declan, Darren's friend they had met a while back when they visited Spiddal for the first time. He was standing at the open car door with a big grin on his face.

“Cailin, there's still time. You could have me instead of that dolt Darren, you know,” Declan kidded.

“Declan, you are so considerate, but I've already made my decision here. You might meet some of my girlfriends though. They are all cute too!” Cailin kidded back.

And off to the church they headed.....

Travels in Eire #70

Time was moving at warp speed for Cailin and Darren. The wedding plans were completed, invitations sent, arrangements made and the day was fast approaching. But before all this ceremony there were the bachelor and hen parties. Darren was spirited away for an overnight with his male friends, and Cailin didn't even want to know what all was going on. She was sure it involved a lot of drinking and hoped Darren survived it all.

The GOTT girls arranged a hen party for Cailin. Much like a bachelorette party, the girls booked a restaurant for dinner ,and then paraded around the streets of Derry with Cailin wearing a banner showing she was the bride to be, and a crown as they went from pub to pub enjoying each other's company. They were all dressed up for the evening in cocktail wear and stood out like sore thumbs but loved all the attention.

Darren had pretty much moved into Cailin's flat, but would still spend a couple nights a week at his old flat if he knew he was working late on a project and might keep Cailin up. Cailin realized on those nights how much she missed Darren. And those nights always proved to be the most restless of night's sleep.

With all the wedding preparations going on, Darren and Cailin took the week before the wedding off as visitors would be arriving and traveling to Spiddal and the Connemara Coast Hotel. Darren had one huge surprise for his parents that he was saving until the last moment. He knew the impact this would have on them. Cailin's dad had decided that he and her mom would do a little sightseeing in Ireland after the wedding and would be renting a car and driving to Spiddal after spending a day in Dublin. Cailin hoped her dad would remember what side of the road to drive on.

It was Saturday morning a week before the wedding when Cailin and Darren started to pack to leave for Spiddal and all the events of the week and wedding. Darren had been making calls for last minute details for a charity auction in the front room of the flat and Cailin was working on packing her suitcase. The next thing she knew she was sitting on the edge of the bed in tears. Darren must have sensed something was wrong as he suddenly appeared at the door. He approached Cailin and kneeled down in front of her.

“Cailin, what is it?” he asked as he reached for her hands.

“I don't know Darren. I was just fine and suddenly this overwhelming rush of anxiety came over me.” Cailin tried to explain through her sobs.

“How can I help, my love?” Darren was a little concerned by this sudden change in Cailin.

“I just realized that after next Saturday there is no turning back. I started to question everything. Did I do the right thing by moving to Ireland? My life is so different now. I guess it just all finally caught up with me.” Cailin was shaking her head in disbelief.

Darren sat next to Cailin on the bed and held her. He did his best to reassure her that he loved her more than life itself, and would do anything in his power to make sure she was happy. Cailin's sobs turned to sniffles and she turned her face to Darren.

“I do love you too, Darren. More than I thought was ever possible. Now go back to your work and let me wipe my face and finish packing. I just think I needed a good cry to let it all out. I'm fine now,” Cailin pulled away from Darren just enough to show him she was fine, kissed him on the cheek and smiled.

Travels in Eire #69

Days were flying by and Cailin was now busier than she had planned with trying to make arrangements for the upcoming wedding and manage her research work, and now this new venture of women's meetings. The first few were small, but as news about this group spread from each of those attending, the group was now at 15 young women. They came from all walks of life, mostly professional, some para-professional but nonetheless, a nice group of women. There were times when a smaller group would decide to get together for dinner or drinks, feeling strength in numbers at a bar. Other times, the whole group would meet for a day's outing. They decided as a group to call themselves “Girls On The Town” (GOTT) to show their independent strength. One of the girls worked in a fabric shop and did a lot of sewing. At one meeting she brought all the girls pretty red and white printed satin scarves that matched. It would identify them as the group. She had appliqued in the GOTT initials in each scarf.

Darren was busy most evenings now with some fund raisers he was organizing and Cailin had convinced the group to have one of their evenings out at a festival in the park. Not only could Cailin be with Darren when he was working, but she was able to introduce some of the girls to the musicians that were performing that night. The girls loved that and as a group all donated a nice amount to the hospital charity in the group name. They loved it when Darren got up on stage to announce that the group Girls On The Town donated to the charity identifying them as the girls with the red and white scarves. The girls all proudly smiled and giggled with the recognition as they were acknowledged.

At one of their meetings Cailin brought up the idea of choosing a charity to support. They could even choose a different charity each year. Emily, one of the members told about the hospice where she worked and they all agreed that would be the first organization they would help. Each of the girls had an assignment. Cailin stayed in the background as the group organizer and let the girls take the lead. Before she knew it there was an article in the Derry Journal about GOTT and how they were raising fund for this hospice.

The girls had decided to band together and make a quilt for the hospice to hang in their entryway. Funds would be raised by purchasing a square in the quilt with recognition in the square as a donor. Rebecca, who worked in the fabric shop and had made the scarves agreed to sew the majority of the quilt and help teach others how to make some of the squares.

Between their contacts and hard work, their first fund raiser was a success. The hospice used the money to purchase new furniture for the great room that was used when families came to visit. Until then it was all hand me downs. They were also able to afford to paint the room and give it a nice fresh welcoming look with the quilt hanging on the wall of the room instead of the entryway.

After Cailin told Darren what they had done, Darren offered a partnership between the hospital and GOTT. The hospital would provide marketing and publicity and GOTT could help with fund raising efforts for the hospital. Cailin took this idea to the group. Since most all of them had been to the festival, they agreed that this partnership would work out wonderfully. Cailin had made some new friends and was now feeling more a part of the Derry community.

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Cailin got to work on her plan. First she needed to find a location for young women to be able to get together, and a purpose for the social meetings. The flat that she lived in had a nice sized parlor on the first floor that was barely ever used. She talked to the owner who lived on the first floor across from the parlor, and asked if she could have some friends over on occasion to visit. She keep the whole idea to herself not knowing if this would work for sure.

Then she started designing a flier to attract young professional women who were looking to connect with other women for social evenings and some charity work. No sense in wasting all this talent on just socializing, and Cailin could see the possibility of tying this in with some of what Darren might be doing.

Cailin started leaving her first set of fliers at a coffee shop down the street from her flat for a meeting that following Thursday after work. She really didn't expect to have many women attend but hoped someone would be there. She chose a Thursday as payday was on Friday and everyone, including herself and Darren, often went to a local pub on Friday.

Cailin didn't want to be serving a lot so she settled on tea and cookies and called the group “Tea and Talk” for lack of any better name. With everything set up in the parlor – she figured she could always make more tea, or bring more cookies from her flat if needed – she waited for 6:00PM to arrive and see if there were any takers.

6:05....6:10.....6:15.....and then there was a knock at the front door.

“Is this the Tea and Talk place?” came the question from a young woman standing at the door.

“Yes, it is,” responded Cailn enthusiastically. “Please come in. My name is Cailin. I'm so glad you decided to come.”

“Wait, you sound American. What kind of group is this? Oh, I'm Aislin.” the girl replied.

“Aislin, yes, I'm Irish American. I'll explain everything once we sit down. I was hoping there would be a few more women here.” Cailin's disappointment was obvious.

“My friend Riley is supposed to be coming too. I don't know what has held her up. Let me give her a call.” Aislin could sense Cailin's disappointment and was trying to help.

After a few minutes there was another knock at the door and Riley joined Cailin and Aislin.

The three of them sat down in the parlor and Cailin explained the reason for the flier. Aislin and Riley were immediately intrigued. They agreed that they would like to enlarge their network of friends as both of them had just moved to Derry for work and didn't know that many people yet. The two girls were so excited to have an American friend also, even though Caiin was Irish now, to them she would always be American. After about an hour they agreed to get together again the following Thursday and see if they each could bring along another friend. They had lots of ideas of other women they worked with who were looking for the same friendship experience.

When Cailin closed the door behind the girls as they left, she smiled. Maybe this would work after all. Now she needed a better plan for the group and a better name. She hoped to have all that done by the following Thursday. She cleaned up the parlor and headed up to her flat as her cell rang. Darren was on his way over. What did she have on hand for dinner? And she laughed out loud.

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The long weekend ended and Cailin and Darren headed back to Ireland after a trip to Cailin's office where everyone who was not at the party could meet Darren. Rob, Cailin's boss, took the couple out to lunch and interspersed work talk with social talk. He was pretty blunt about making sure he would be invited to the wedding. It would be a great excuse to come to Ireland for future prospects for the company, he mused.

The couple left Rob and headed back to the house to finish packing and get ready to head to the airport for the evening flight to Dublin. Cailin could see that her parents were already suffering from the ensuing separation, so she tried to keep the mood as light as possible.

“Mom, before you know it you will be the one packing to come over to Ireland. Now mind how heavy your bags are. Can't have dad lugging bags for you and gran.” Cailin smiled at her mother.

“And you are more than welcome to come and visit anytime. My parents would love to have you visit them, even though it's not very near to Derry. They would welcome some American visitors so they can take you to church and introduce you to their friends.” Darren wanted to be encouraging also.

“You two have got to stop this. We'll be there in plenty of time for the wedding and be able to visit with both of you and Darren's parents. We just will miss you so much,” Mary was trying to hold back tears.

“Then mom, we'll be doing Skype so we can see each other,” Cailin looked at Sean for some fatherly help.

“The taxi is here and you two need to head off to the airport. Your mum and me will be starting to make our list for our trip tomorrow. Before you know it we'll be pestering you all over again.” Sean smiled as the two headed for the door.

And with that Darren and Cailin headed back to Ireland to work and finish planing their wedding. With an uneventful flight and the bus ride back to Derry, both of them were exhausted for the next day's work. Cailin had the option of taking an easy day since she had just been in her office, but Darren was going to have to run on fumes. Another charity concert was in the works and he would be very busy until just after it ended.

With Ruth back in the United States, Cailin realized that she really didn't have any friends other than the acquaintances she had me through Darren. And with the hours that Darren kept during charity event time, he was barely home from work. Cailin decided it was time for her to get out on her own in Derry and meet some new female friends. Just how she was going to do this posed another problem.

Cailin's skill as a researcher was put to work here in Ireland. She found some volunteer opportunities with a conservation organization that allowed her some outdoor time and a chance to do some gardening while she was at it. Cailin's thinking was that if she got out and participated in some of the local activities, she would have the chance to meet more people and possibly connect with some women her own age. Finishing work early because of her US connection, she had some time to devote to this project. There were random assignments and locations and not very many young women.

This was not going to be as simple as Cailin had thought it would be. She needed some female friendships and could not always depend on Darren to be there for her. Over a short period of time Cailin realized that there was no easy way to meet new friends in Derry and hanging out at the pubs as a single woman was not a great idea either. Very slowly an idea crept into her head that she felt might work. And as this idea formulated in her mind she started to take action on it.